I am trying to calculate the correct upapada lagna I am currently under but I am getting very confused. I know there are certain rules and exceptions and I don't really know if I am doing it right. I had always thought my first UL was in Sagittarius (6th house) but then I used one program and it told me it's in Virgo (3rd house). I thought it was just a mistake but then I read online about some exceptions (about calculating to 10th and 4th) and this made sense... however, I'm not sure if this is a correct system to use.
If someone can please see my chart and let me know which UL I am currently running I would really appreciate it. My first relationship did not work out; I had decided to marry one person after that but later decided against it and ended it; and now I like one person and am considering him for marriage. Hence, I would need to know if the third UL is the correct one or if this second person would even show up as an UL considering it was a very brief relation. Based on my original calculations, my first UL would be Sagittarius, my second would be Cancer and third would be Aquarius. Please let me know if this is correct.
DOB: 17 March 1985
Place: Visalia, California - USA
Any help would be appreciated,