by Praveen Roy » Sat Aug 11, 2012 6:37 am
Saindhavi,
Thank You very much for your reply, after reading your post I went back into this thread to know what you are, apart from your caliber and knowledge it wondered me your attitude and kindness to the anonymous people, hearing to their problems, finding the solutions for their sufferings which reminded me one incident.
Ronald Regan is the President for USA in late 80’s, he always preferred one personal car to drive which has a broken glass on the back side, people around him surprised and in one day they asked, it is very trivial amount for you to afford for replacement of this glass and why you are reluctant to do so, he replied.
One day I was passing in my car on a road which has a grass lawns adjacent to it, suddenly I heard a hard hit on my back glass by a heavy stone, I stopped my car and I found a boy near by who is about to pick up another stone, in rage I rushed to him and I yelled don’t you have sense, that boy showed in the grass lawn, a old man who has fallen down from his wheel chair and said to me, I tried to lift him up, but I could not, since from last one hour I am trying to stop each car passing by, but no body is responding to me, at last I decided to take this action. Then I, with the help of that boy picked up that old man in to his chair, serving him I told the boy, when you are coming out with your Grandpa you should accompany with elders, boy surprisingly looked at me, he is not my Grandpa, in fact I doesn’t know who he is, when I am passing in the lawn I found him fallen down from his chair, I really wondered for that little boy attitude, for anonymous person he felt the pain, his boldness and patience to help the people impressed me a lot, for a gesture of humanity I decided not to repair the glass, and this glass always reminds me how my attitude should be towards my fellow humans.
Listening to problems is not a simple thing as it appears, one famous psychologist while in conversation, told me, people will approach us with different problems, quite naturally we will pond over them, at one point of time it will disturbs us too much while thinking on some one, in fact it is a challenge for our psychologists to come out from these thoughts, if cannot manage to come out quickly we may turn mad in some day.
Thank you very much for your remedies and solutions to you and other like minded perople like you on behalf of the all the forum members whom you helped.
Saying all these things I am sorry to tell you my problem, will you please help in my Wife brother's issue, who is one of the victim of 12th house Rahu havoc, his DOB 18th Jan 1979, 11:30 pm, Visakhapatnam, major problem, now any body suggesting any remedy he is not at all comming forward to do, he lost faith after consulting so many, no job, when can we expect positively, any predictions on the rest of the things
Regards
Praveen